Summing up, I can't force sensitivity on people, but I will not abide harassment. That's my goal; something where 'the guys' aren't suddenly saying, "Oh, a girl/an individual of Asian descent/a triffid, gotta watch our language," but, "Hey, we're aware of you being a woman/Asian/carnivorous alien plant, but we're only going to make as much a deal of it as you do." Awareness and acknowledgment, not artificial action.